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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 30 ~ John Keating

Posted by Unknown Kamis, 30 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 30~

"We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And, the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for. 

To quote from Whitman, 'O me! O life!... of the questions of these recurring; of the endless trains of the faithless -- of cities filled with the foolish; what good amid these O me, O life? Answer. That you are here - that life exists, and identity; that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse.' 

That the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse. 

What will your verse be?"

- John Keating, Dead Poet's Society



This movie. Oh, this movie. 

As a lover of poetry, of writing, of words, this movie spoke to a part of my soul that I was too young to know even existed yet within me. 

I haven't seen the film in a good long time now, and suddenly have an urge to watch it again, to share it with my children, to want them to understand it. That urge brought on by a commercial, of all things. This commercial.



The first time I saw it, I was moved to tears. I watch it now, for the creation of this post and it speaks to me again. To me, this isn't about a tablet at all, though the marketing is nothing short of brilliant. It is about the words, the way they are woven together, the meaning they carry, the places they urge us to go, the people they insist that we become.

John Keating was an English teacher at a private university in the film, and he used poetry to speak to the hearts and minds of his students. This quote contains a piece of a poem by Walt Whitman, and he used it to challenge them to think more, to love more, to be more. 

I endeavor to do the same here with you all today, which is fitting as this series comes to a close. 

If I ask it of you, I must be willing to do it myself.

Here goes nothing. 

My passion is this, what I do here. Writing. It is an impossible, unrelenting piece of who I am. It is what I am called to do. It is what keeps me awake at night filling my head with ideas and topics and characters and stories. It is what forces me to reveal the things that are hardest to let out. It is what kept me alive in my darkest days. It is what has connected me to people in ways I could have never imagined. It is what has taught me more about myself, about the world, about other people, about my parents and children than anything else ever could have. It gives me a voice. It helps me give voice to others. 

My passion is photography, one that I must make more time for. There are few things in the world that bring me more peace than being one with nature, just being surrounded by it, observing it, then taking it and framing it and capturing it so that it may live on again in the images. I love to catch people when they don't know they are being photographed, when they don't know someone is watching them, when they are the most natural and the most amazingly beautiful versions of themselves. 

My passion is helping others, particularly women as they embark on the journey of motherhood. To know that I can help someone take ownership of one of the most pivotal times in their lives, that I can hold them up, that I can support them, that I can whisper words of encouragement and love in their ears, that I can sit in the shared silence as the world stops spinning just for a moment before the baby cries, is a gift. I am blessed to do this. 

If I can get to the end of my days and know that  I have touched someone with these verses, these passions, these loves of mine, my purpose will be fulfilled. 

What will your verse be?

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 29 ~ The Joker

Posted by Unknown Rabu, 29 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 29 ~

I believe whatever doesn't kill you simply makes you stranger.

~ The Joker, The Dark Knight


Heath Ledger. The Joker. One of the best acting performances of our entire generation, the character that infiltrated his mind, the craziest bad guy we love to hate and hate to love.

He was that good. The world lost an amazing actor when he died.

The script for this movie was written by Christopher and Jonathan Nolan, based on the characters we have grown up with. Batman is one of the most mysterious, darkest heroes in the superhero universe, so logic dictates that his enemies must also be mysterious and dark.

This phrase is uttered very near the beginning of the film, during a bank robbery, as The Joker shoves a smoke bomb into the mouth of a bank employee.

The Joker is a twisted person, to say the least. His motivations are different than most villains. He doesn't just want money or power or influence or weapons. He wants chaos more than anything. He literally wants to watch the world burn just to see what people will do when faced with ethical dilemmas.

Why he is the way he is, we may never know. There are several different versions of his past, and in the film The Dark Knight, he spends quite a bit of time telling stories, always different, each one a little more crazy than the last.

On to the quote, one which seems appropriate for a man like him to say.

And, if I'm being completely honest, one that I tend to agree with.

Let me explain.

There is a run-of-the-mill quote very similar to this one, uttered in a million different incarnations, about how what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. There's truth to that one, of course, assuming that what you deal with doesn't damage you too much. Living with PTSD now, though there are days I would say I am stronger, there are also days I would say that I am too damaged now.

I think we all learn and grow from our experiences necessarily, that we gain perspective and wisdom, that we mature and expand our view of the world. Or we should. Not everyone does. Some people take their experiences to be the only ones, their perspective to be the only one, and then spend the rest of their lives laboring under the delusion that the version of the world they see is the only one.

So, what doesn't kill you can make you stronger. It can also make you damaged. It can also make you bitter and deluded.

This quote isn't that one, of course. It is a mockery of that quote, twisted and mangled by the raving lunatic shoving a smoke bomb into an innocent man's mouth.

It's also true.

At least for me, it's true. I've been through a lot. There were times that life beat me down, kicked my ass, shoved me down further and left me to rot. It was that bad for a while. I've lost a lot. I've had to do things no one should ever have to do. I've been scared, I've been alone, I've been used.

I survived it all, somehow, probably just out of pure stubbornness.

Now that I'm here, hopefully past the worst of it, I'm this version of myself.

I'm stronger in ways, weaker in others. I'm smarter and wiser but far more skeptical and cynical than I ever was before. I'm more prone to show emotions at times, more likely to stuff them away at others. I'm more interesting for sure.

And I'm a hell of a lot stranger than I ever was.

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 28 ~ Norman Reedus

Posted by Unknown Selasa, 28 Januari 2014 0 komentar

Day 28 ~

"Damaged people gravitate towards damaged people."

~ Norman Reedus

This series is almost over. I am so conflicted about it, for a few reasons. First of all, I love quotes. I love learning more about the people who say the words that become famous. I love interpreting things. It's what I do. Some of you out there reading have adored this series. We lost everyone else along the way though, and I can't honestly tell if it's just adjusting to Facebook's latest "improvement" that drops my reach, if most of my fans are turned off by this series, or if I'm just getting boring in my old age.

I can't tell.

Do you know who Norman Reedus is? He's best known for his role as Daryl, the guy that I want right next to me during the zombie apocalypse.

This guy.



Swoon. In real life, before he was the crossbow wielding badass, he was a model and artist. He has built Harleys and exhibited his art all over the world. I was trying to think of a way to wrap up this series that was interesting to me at least, and since he is very near the top of my list, I looked for quotes from him.

Then I found this and I decided that he should just move in with me.

Because this.

Damaged people gravitate towards damaged people.

Do they ever.

I have this theory. And forgive me in advance because this theory is totally going to make me sound like an asshole to anyone who doesn't understand where I am coming from...

It's this.

Perspective is everything, and the only way to really have it is to live through enough terrible life experiences. Get through on the other side, after you've survived and re-evaluated and reorganized and reassessed. Once you've seen what you are made of, what other people are made of, once you've been totally honest about your flaws and embraced them, then you can actually begin to understand what the point of all of this is.

Until then, you're just chugging along doing what you think you are supposed to, reaching for things you think you want, valuing what you think is important. Even if it's all bullshit.

Necessarily, to have all that vital life experience, you have to have been through a lot.

Those experiences don't just bring knowledge and wisdom, they bring baggage too.

I have a matched set.

With a steamer trunk.

Am I a damaged person? Some people would certainly think so. There are times that I wonder if I'm broken myself. Sometimes I am, if I am being completely honest.

The people who get me, the people who understand me the best, the people who I can tell things to, the people I can trust to be there for me without judging me or placating me or handing out irrelevant advice....they've been there too.

Does that mean we're all complete train wrecks?

Maybe.

Stop staring, already.

Then again, we've all got issues. Live long enough and there's bound to be something fundamentally screwed up about you. It's how you cope with it that matters.

I prefer to cope using zombie apocalypse shows.



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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 27 ~ Hershel Greene

Posted by Unknown Senin, 27 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 27 ~

"You step outside, you risk your life. You take a drink of water, you risk your life. And nowadays you breathe, and you risk your life. Every moment now...you don't have a choice. The only thing you can choose is what you're risking it for."

~ Hershel Greene, The Walking Dead



Oh, Hershel. I love this show, I love him. I am still not totally recovered from the mid-season finale. If you aren't current on it, I don't want to spoil anything that happens, so we will just talk about the quote.

Hershel is the farmer/veterinarian in The Walking Dead. He is the recovering alcoholic that still struggles with his faith at times, even though he clings to it more than any other character on the show. 

He became the moral center of the show, the voice of calm, the voice of reason. He is a fierce protector of his children, he is the one they all look to for guidance and stability.  He is the father figure of this post-apocalyptic world.

These words were spoken to his daughter, Maggie and Glen during an outbreak of contagious illness among the survivors. He insisted that it was his duty to do what he could to help those he could for as long as he could. They were worried about him exposing himself to disease. He saw his purpose as bigger.

Though the setting in which the show takes place is clearly a fictional one, his words hold truth in our reality as well. There are risks inherent in everything we do, the only thing certain about life at all is that it will end someday, but the fear of what might happen to us or when we might meet our end can't be the thing that limits us. 

Or at least it shouldn't be.

Instead, Hershel would urge us to suppress the fear. Fear can't be banished, and I think he'd make the argument that it shouldn't, but it can be overcome. We can choose to go out and do the things we should anyway.

He would sit you down right now and ask you what you are living for. What are you risking your life for?

What would your answer be?

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 26 ~ Robert Downey, Jr.

Posted by Unknown Minggu, 26 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 26 ~

"Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway"

~ Robert Downey, Jr.


I quoted Ironman yesterday, so this was the next logical step, right?


Oh, this man. I don't think he ages. Or he made some deal with the devil that grants him eternal youth in exchange for whatever he traded it in for. He is....just...well...awesome.

I love the guy for a few reasons. I loved him when he was the jerk harassing Gary and Wyatt in Weird Science and when he was Charlie in Chaplin, but it wasn't really until he started publicly struggling with addiction that I began to pay more attention to him than the rest of the brat pack. 

Here he was, this wildly successful guy who had lived his entire life in the spotlight, and he was going public with the fact that he had a drug problem. I remember watching him during this time when he was on Ally McBeal and rooting for him, cringing when he relapsed, celebrating when he stayed sober. He finally kicked it for good and the world rejoiced....because goddamn he is a fantastic actor.

This quote is from an interview he did on Inside the Actor's Studio in 2006, years before he started hitting blockbuster numbers in the theaters. He was sober, he was rebuilding his career. His first marriage had fallen apart but he was happily remarried. He was in a good place, maybe for the first time in his life.

That's what makes this quote so fantastic. It can really only be appreciated, I think, when you've been to hell and back a few times. Then you get it. You see what is important. You understand.

I understand. 

As someone who had to do it all in the spotlight, for him the journey was far more complicated by the microscope staring at him all the time, picking apart everything about him.

He learned in that time to work a crowd, he had to. 

He learned to play to the masses, to quiet the people, to silence the critics...but live his life exactly as he wanted to anyhow. Which is what being a more self-realized person is about, anyway, if we are being honest. 

How much of what you do is shaped by what other people might think?How much of what any of us do is shaped that way? Probably too much.

He'd tell you to stop living like that. 

So would I.

You should listen to us. We know stuff.

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 25 ~ Ironman

Posted by Unknown Sabtu, 25 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 25~

We create our own demons.

~ Tony Stark, aka Ironman, Ironman 3



Hi. My name is Kelly, and I'm a little bit obsessed with Ironman.

Okay, so more than a little bit. 

Tony Stark is his real name, you know...genius, billionaire, playboy, philanthropist. That guy. If you haven't watched the Avengers movies or the Ironman ones, go. I'll wait.

No, really.

I love Ironman for many reasons, and have confessed my love of him on several prior occasions. When the most recent installment in the Ironman saga came out last year, though, my heart grew three sizes.

Tony Stark had to confront the fact that he has anxiety issues. 

This quote is as much about his enemies that he fights in the action scenes as it is about the ones in his head. If you haven't already seen IM3 and failed to listen to me up ^^^ there, I'm going to spoil some of the plot for you. 

Aldrich Killian is the bad guy in this one, though for a while you are led to believe the Mandarin is. Anyhow, back when Killian was a young scientist, he approached Stark with an idea. Tony was too busy with his playboyness to be bothered and brushed Killian off, who obviously was pissed and spent years figuring out how to best get revenge.

All this goes on at the same time that Stark begins to realize how disabling his anxiety problems have become.

Essentially, the villains of the movie are two-fold. The physical ones he has to contend with and the ones inside his own head, both of which exist because of things he did or said in the past.

Awesomeness.

I am Ironman.

Not really, but kinda.

Now that you have a lengthy explanation of the quote and know most of the essential information about Tony Stark, look at this for a minute.



LOOK AT IT.

Like I needed another damn reason to love Ironman. 

I guess I should talk about the quote, huh?

This one. Just yes. So much yes. As a person who over analyzes everything, who over thinks, who runs constant dialogues in her head and probably makes it all worse, yes. As a person who lives with anxiety all the freaking time, yes. As a person who has a brain completely screwed up by ptsd, yes. 

Are some of my demons external ones? Sure. 

But you know what I do that makes it all ten bajillion times worse????

I let it get into my head. And then it multiplies. 

Tony Stark. 

He's my soul mate, you guys. 

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 24 ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

Posted by Unknown Jumat, 24 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 24~

“The man of knowledge must be able not only to love his enemies but also to hate his friends.” 

Friedrich Nietzsche


This.

Quotes like this one make me wish I had pursued philosophy more when I was in college. It's an issue necessarily complicated by the fact that I was far younger and naiver than I ever could have appreciated at the time. With age comes wisdom and perspective which makes you appreciate things like this a little bit more, I think, so maybe it wouldn't have been as magnificent as I imagine because I wouldn't have understood it all yet.

I digress.

Nietzsche was a German philosopher who questioned the validity of Christianity and mused about the foundations of morality. He was an existentialist who believed strongly in the affirmation of self. One of these days I am going to make good on my threat to build a time traveling machine and go buy some of these people a drink.

Anyhow, to the quote.

“The man of knowledge must be able not only to love his enemies but also to hate his friends.” 

I'm just going to go ahead and assume he meant to include "woman of knowledge" too. Wink, wink.

The older I get, the truer this quote is. First, the beginning of the quote. When I was young and naive, along with my patent inability to appreciate philosophy, I didn't understand the value of diversifying my relationships.

I know it now.

It's something that, much to the chagrin of a few, I try to live in this online persona I have constructed. My Facebook page, often the place of heated argument, is one where differing opinions are solicited and encouraged so long as everyone can remain respectful of one another. There are plenty of pages out there who enjoy their viewpoints and who choose to limit dissent. That is their choice. My choice is to be open and accepting of all viewpoints, to do my very best to be tolerant of them, and to allow others the same freedom.

I can't argue against censorship and then censor people. It's logically inconsistent.

And I am really part Vulcan. Truly.

We've had conversations on my page that have remained mostly civil about some of the most heated topics in our society, conversations that would have rapidly degraded on other pages I follow. I like to believe that the reason is, at least in part, because of how I run the page.

There is great harm in being surrounded only by people who agree with you. Your views will never be tested or questioned, which can lead you down very skewed paths of reasoning if it isn't ever held up to the fire.

Talk to people who disagree with you. Understand where they are coming from. Ask them questions. Learn. Open your mind. You won't be the only one who benefits.

As for the second half of the quote, I agree as well, though for a slightly different reason. As for the philosophical reason, hating your friends can come in handy when they are helping to lead you down that path of flawed reasoning I was just talking about.

People who we trust can hurt us, can encourage us to hurt ourselves, can encourage us to hurt others. Perhaps this is because they aren't really friends, perhaps this is because they have ulterior motives, perhaps this is because we don't understand the true nature of the relationship. Regardless, a bit of skepticism isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Plus, sometimes people you like are going to do really stupid things. It's okay to hate them for it.

Promise.

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 23 ~ Joss Whedon

Posted by Unknown Kamis, 23 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 23 ~

“I'll take crazy over stupid any day.” 

Joss Whedon


You knew that once I stopped writing about what I was supposed to be writing about that eventually I would have to nerd it up, right?

Hi. My name is Kelly. I am a nerd. I hope you know who Joss Whedon is. If you don't, I'll tell you.

He's like a junior godfather in the nerd world. He created, helped create, wrote or directed The Avengers, Toy Story, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Firefly, Angel, an episode of Glee and a whole bunch of other stuff.

I'm not at all surprised that he said something like this:

“I'll take crazy over stupid any day.” 

Not even a little bit. He creates characters that are practically geniuses, but quirky...so this makes sense. He's an atheist, but a humanist, both of which have been well documented. If you aren't familiar with humanism, it's essentially the idea that our value and importance as humans is inherent, is not subject to or dependent on the existence of a higher power. We are urged to be the best version of ourselves. Whedon in particular would say that this is essential, because this is all there is. 

On to the quote.

I have to say that I agree with him. Honestly. I certainly have my crazy side, and by crazy I mean like certifiable because there is actually shit wrong with me and also just regular run of the mill crazy.

Maybe it's just me, but when people call other people crazy, I don't think it's an insult. Maybe that's because I have lots and lots of my own crazy. Maybe it's because I don't see it as a way to categorize or diagnose people. I see crazy just as being this: when someone does or says something that doesn't seem logical to us. 

That doesn't, by the way, mean the other person is crazy at all. Misunderstood, maybe, but not necessarily crazy. I mean, they could totally be deluded or irrational or unhinged for whatever reason, certainly, but I don't think the term as it is commonly used refers only to those people. 

The truth is that most of us do what we do for a reason, even if it doesn't make sense to anyone else at the time and might make us seem crazy. That reason stems from our unique and individual life experience, perspective, morality and so on...which is the awesome thing about us humans. We're all so different.

I've joked with friends about this, particularly with family issues. I don't think any of us believes our family is totally sane and normal, but at least we understand this particular version of crazy. We're used to it. We know how to deal with it. That doesn't make it normal at all, it just makes it familiar.

Having said that, I'll take crazy over stupid any day of the week and twice on Sunday. 

As for stupidity, I suppose there are a few ways to define it. Stupidity can just be a lack of intelligence, which may or may not be something that anyone has any ability to control. I don't think that's the kind of stupid he's talking about though.

I think he's talking about the oblivious type of stupidity. The people who fail to understand what is happening because they lack the interest or effort required to figure it out. The people who believe whatever they are told, even if it's completely wrong, because they don't bother finding out for themselves.  The people who don't think about what they are doing or saying before they do it. The people that you can't have a rational discussion with. The people who can't or won't understand logic and reason. The people who can't entertain the idea that other people may have differing ideas and opinions or experiences.

The people who make you want to bang your head on the wall.

Those people. 

Give me crazy over that, please.

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 22 ~ Garrison Keillor

Posted by Unknown Rabu, 22 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 22 ~

“Anyone who thinks sitting in church can make you a Christian must also think that sitting in a garage can make you a car.” 

― Garrison Keillor


Welcome back. Hoping to make this a bit more interesting for the last bit of the challenge, I decided to forgo the rest of the quotes about life and find ones that I wanted to write about more.

Like this one.

Do you know who Garrison Keillor is? He is a writer and humorist best known for his work on the A Prairie Home Companion radio show. He's what I would call an acquired taste, as people seem to love or hate his work, most of which revolves around witty observations about life as he sees it in his pseudo-fictional hometown of Lake Wobegon, Minnesota.


He speaks in almost a sing-songy tone and reminds me of the narrators of old movies.

On to the quote, which happens to be the most popular one about religion according to GoodReads.

“Anyone who thinks sitting in church can make you a Christian must also think that sitting in a garage can make you a car.” 

I love this quote. From the tips of my toes to the ends of the hair on my head. I have said something similar to this more than once when musing about my own observations on religion, though mine usually goes a bit like this:


Sitting in a church every Sunday doesn't make you religious, 
it just makes you habitual.

 I usually manage to piss someone off every time I say that, but I believe it to be true. I've seen, up close and personal, some of the damage that can be done by so-called religious people, even those who devoted their entire lives to the church.

You don't have to look hard to find settlements and allegations and charges and defrockings anymore, though often the abuses at issue had taken place many years ago. 

I know some of these victims. I know how they were quieted and hushed. You can't tell me that a truly reverent person would perpetrate crimes like that on innocent children and carry on as though they are doing the work of the lord.

Just don't buy it. Sorry.

It's not just the abuse cases either, I have known of people held up on some pedestal because of their work with the church, only to find out they are stealing, lying, sleeping with several members of the congregation at a time, using donations to buy drugs and more. I know people who proclaim to follow the teachings of Jesus, yet seem to have completely missed the point of the lessons.

Standing in a building occasionally (or even daily for that matter) doesn't mean anything to me. You have to walk the walk.

Do many people who attend church weekly do this? Sure! Not all of them, though, and certainly not just because they stand in a building. Church attendance, in my opinion is neither a requirement nor a guarantee. Faith is more than that.

My opinion is that faith isn't even necessarily tied to religion. (my opinion here, I don't intend to diminish what anyone else believes, regardless of what some may think)

I know plenty of atheists and agnostics who are genuinely good people. They don't have anywhere they are expected to be Sunday morning, they aren't living their lives out of fear or reward from some higher power, they are just good people. 

Being a good person, you could argue, is what being Christian is about.

Living an honorable life, having integrity takes a lot more than an hour a week. It's how you choose to live your life every day, every hour, regardless of where you happen to be standing at the moment.

Sitting in a church for an hour isn't going to make you a good person any more than standing in a garage will make you a car, Keillor is absolutely right about that.

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30 Days of Quotes About Whatever ~ Day 21 ~ Assholes

Posted by Unknown Selasa, 21 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 21 ~

Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.

- Steve Winterburn


Hi there. We're changing things up here. I was getting annoyed by the life quotes on GoodReads because they had reached the point of repetition, so I'm going to spend the last part of this challenge doing something a little different every day. 

This quote, sent to me by a friend. She thought this would be a great addition to the challenge, and I agreed. 

This is my blog and I can change my mind, right?  Besides which, I've lived this quote a few times.

First though, let's talk about the guy who said it.

This quote is quite frequently falsely attributed to William Gibson, which would be very interesting if it was his since he's one of the godfathers of steampunk. He has said on numerous occasions that it isn't though.

Steve Winterburn said it. He's a humorist who is best known for his work in the Twittersphere.

On to the quote.

We live in interesting times. There is still a lot of stigma when it comes to mental illness in general, very real stigma that affects those who live with it, and yet there is this simultaneous societal obsession with self-diagnosis. 

You know these people, the ones who google every symptom they ever have. The ones who declare that loving organization must make them have OCD, that because they are sad that their dog died they must be depressed, that because they got nervous before something big happened they must have anxiety. 

Stop that.

Really. Those of us who live with this stuff for real need you to stop.

It makes people take us less seriously. It makes light of what it is really like to live with these conditions. 

And I digress.

The quote itself is right on. I speak that truth from the wonder of living it. When you've been through some of the things I have been, when every time you turn around, someone else is betraying you, failing you, lying to you, it's hell. 

I've been there. For a long time while I was in that place, I tried to rationalize it. A long, long time. I thought that there had to be something wrong with me, that it wasn't possible that there could be this many things wrong. That I was the crazy one.

Some of them helped convince me that I was.

Then, one day it was all revealed for what it was. It wasn't me. It was never me. I was collateral damage, the one hurt because of the things they were doing that really didn't have much to do with me at all.

I was, in fact, just surrounded by assholes. 

Let me tell you, it was a glorious moment when I finally realized it.

When you've thought you were the crazy one, it's freeing, for sure.

Life is a whole lot better now.

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30 Days of Quotes About Life ~ Day 20 ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

Posted by Unknown Senin, 20 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 20 ~

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” 

Martin Luther King Jr.


Though he wasn't the first, he became the most visible leader of the civil rights movement. Dr. King founded the Southern Christian Leadership Conference and helped to organize the March on Washington, among many other significant contributions to the movement. He is most famous for his I have a dream speech, given at the culmination of the March.

Today is the day that we celebrate him.

I found it odd that I hadn't run across one of his quotes yet in this project, but then realized the most likely reason - tagging, of all things. The list I am using is on GoodReads, and the quotes are pulled up in the category they are tagged in only. This quote, tagged only as inspirational, which seems just wrong to me. It is that, certainly, but it's more than that and should, in my opinion, be tagged for life as well.

Anyhow, on to the quote, my personal favorite of his.

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” 

Coming from a man like him, it's not hard to see what he is most likely talking about in this instance. He was a leader of a nonviolent movement demanding equality. He understood and mastered the use of his words in a way that very few people ever achieve. He would not be silenced, he fought for what was right and just.

Some would interpret this quote to just be about fighting oppression. I don't, though that certainly is a large component of it. He certainly would remind us today to open our eyes to the wrongs in the world, and to not just observe them, but to try and effect change however we can. The first, most obvious way to change anything, and the most essential step in any type of progress is to expose the wrongness in the first place.

It's why I do so much of what I do here, though there are times I find myself questioning my motivations, particularly when I get hate mail and friends sever ties with me over something I have written. I am just not capable of ignoring injustices. I'm not designed that way, I guess. I see something bad happening and feel compelled to open the doors and windows and shine a spotlight on it for the world to see.

I don't think he is just talking about injustices though. He's talking about the things that matter, all of the things.

When you see it from that perspective, you must ask yourself what it is in life that matters. What in society matters. Who matters.

You'll find that list a lot longer than anticipated, most likely.

How many of those things do we cast aside, do we become complacent with, do we not give our full attention to, do we put off until tomorrow?

That list, also probably longer than we want to admit.

Dr. King would urge us all to do better, I think.

Let's do that.

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30 Days of Quotes About Life ~ Day 19 ~ Bob Marley

Posted by Unknown Minggu, 19 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 19 ~

“Who are you to judge the life I live?
I know I'm not perfect
-and I don't live to be-
but before you start pointing fingers...
make sure you hands are clean!” 



Bob Marley


Marley. Yes.

This quote is taken from the song Judge Not.


The man who brought reggae to the masses, who had one of the most profound effects on music as we know it was also a terribly observant person. He was misunderstood by many, and though he was judged by others almost constantly, he resisted doing it himself.

This quote embodies so much about who he was and how he saw the world, and it's one that more people need to read and take to heart.

It seems like there is more hatred, vitriol, judgment and ugliness in the world now than there has ever been in my lifetime. I think part of it is the existence of the internet, the false power that people feel when they can hide behind a keyboard. If you wouldn't say something to someone's face, you shouldn't say it at all, but we all know that doesn't happen in real life. Just spend three minutes on social media and you'll see it.

I think part of it is the growing extremism in the country, the factions of people who are insistent on pitting themselves against others, for whatever reason they deem legitimate and appropriate.

I think part of it is the reality of our media these days. There isn't much true journalism anymore, and most of the talking heads on the television aren't communicating unbiased information, they are selling a side. Everything is spun, stories are biased, for as much as is discussed, there are all the stories that no one will touch. Keeping people ignorant is a great way to convince them that you are right.

I think part of it is the fact that empathy is dying. We don't care about other people enough anymore. We worry about ourselves, about whatever makes us happy right at this exact moment. We don't care about tomorrow or what happens to someone else. We are shortsighted and selfish. The only way to stop this is to start caring again. To teach kids to care. To walk the walk.

I think, though, that most judging comes from insecurity. We want to believe that we are better people, stronger people, happier people, more stable people...and instead of feeling secure with whoever we are, we decide that it's easier to see the flaws in others instead. Instead of working on our own issues, we point fingers and rage about the things we deem wrong with everyone else. Not because we're right but because it makes us feel better.

Temporarily.

It's not worth it.

Life is short. Be happy. If you aren't happy, figure out why and work on it. Leave everyone else alone.

I think Marley was a damn genius.

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30 Days of Quotes About Life ~ Day 18 ~ Bessie Anderson Stanley

Posted by Unknown Sabtu, 18 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 18 ~

“To laugh often and love much; to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest citizens and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to give of one’s self; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived—this is to have succeeded.” 

Bessie Anderson Stanley


I had never heard of Bessie Anderson Stanley, but have seen this quote or similar incarnations falsely attributed to  other writers, primarily Ralph Waldo Emerson.

I did a quick search of her, only to find out that this quote was the winning entry in a contest, the prompt being what is the definition of success? I also realized pretty quickly that the quote was different than this one, though they are fairly similar.

The real quote is this:



He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much;
Who has enjoyed the trust of pure women, the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children;
Who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;
Who has never lacked appreciation of Earth's beauty or failed to express it;
Who has left the world better than he found it,
Whether an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul;
Who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had;
Whose life was an inspiration;
Whose memory a benediction.

The quote is one that is cited in pieces all over pinterest and in inspirational posters, reminding people that true success isn't rooted in material things, but instead in the impact you make in the world. Whether most people really take it to heart though, or just like to hang pretty signs on their walls, is subject to debate I suppose.

Honestly.

People, particularly in this society, are materialistic. The pursuit of bigger, faster, newer. The whining about having to wait for the newest version of the iphone to be released. The complaining the entire time they are on vacation because it isn't as perfect as it should be. The car to keep up with the Joneses. The Ineedabiggerhouseitis. Even the people who hang these saying on the walls of their homes don't usually seem to get it...not really, anyway.

It's hard, fighting the materialism. Everything in the media, on the television, in the magazines tells us that we aren't complete without the things they want us to buy.

Life isn't about things.

Life isn't some contest of material acquisition.

You can't take it with you when you go.

Again, I am sure that I am jaded by the experiences of my life, but I just know that in the end all that matters is how you treated people and what kind of legacy you leave. No one is going to care what car you drove or how big the number on your paycheck was or if the diamond in the ring was real or fake.

If it won't matter then, it shouldn't matter now.

What does matter are the things she writes about.

Laughter, friendship, love, embracing and using your abilities, humility, charity, seeing the beauty around you - that's what life is about.

The rest, truly, is just stuff.

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30 Days of Quotes About Life ~ Day 17 ~ Pablo Picasso

Posted by Unknown Jumat, 17 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 17 ~

“Everything you can imagine is real.” 

Pablo Picasso


Ah, Picasso.

I am one of those people who could quite literally spend the entire day at the art museum. I marvel at the abilities of those who can create physically. On a good day, I might call myself crafty, but even that would be a stretch. I took art classes for years but my skills never evolved beyond the most basic, without regard for my attempts or desire.

He was a complicated person, a philanderer for lack of a better term. He was twice married, fathered four children by three women, only one of which he was married to. His works are some of the most adored and loved in the world. Guernica is the work of his that I studied in the most depth, from the perspective of an art student, as a history student and as a student with a Spanish teacher passionate about the culture.


Coming from someone with a body of work as large and as loved as his is, a quote like this one carries more weight. His imagination, something we have all been given access to through his creations.

He says that everything you can imagine is real, which, perhaps for a man like him, was truth. Artists live in a different world than the rest of us do, I think. Their vision is more fluid, less grounded in reality. More transient, less tangible, more possibilities, fewer constraints. They can create things that would never be real otherwise, a luxury for those of us lacking in those skills can only envy.

Art can evoke emotions from us. It can touch parts of our souls that we weren't even sure existed. It can speak to us in a way that words never could. Music is the same.

How much this applies to the rest of us, those who don't dwell in the place of limitless creation, I am not sure. There is certainly an argument to be made that we should set our goals high, dream big, work hard and all of those things, because that is often the only way that the unattainable can be brought closer to our grasp, but there are things that are certainly impossible and no amount of believing will make them appear.

I can't conjure things. I can't manifest them. Believing won't change that.

There are things I wish that I had those powers with, but I don't.

Thanks, Picasso. Now I want to try to paint again just so I can live in the world of possibilities....

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30 Days of Quotes About Life ~ Day 16 ~ Woody Allen

Posted by Unknown Kamis, 16 Januari 2014 0 komentar
Day 16~

“I'm not afraid of death; I just don't want to be there when it happens.” 

Woody Allen


Lord.

I skipped the quote that is really the 16th most popular one about life because it was yet another by Dr. Seuss and I've had just about enough of him.

So, logically, this means that Woody Allen is next.

***bangs head on wall***

Woody. I suppose if we're talking about his contributions to the world and all, this is as good a week as any since he was given the Cecil B. DeMille award this week at the Golden Globes. You know, the lifetime achievement award of which only one is given out a year. The award that he couldn't even be bothered with accepting in person, instead spending the evening at the theater in New York.

I guess, if you like his stuff, he's an icon in the industry. I've never really liked his movies, and people I know either love his work or hate it and there really isn't anything in the middle. Maybe it's everything else icky about him that skews my opinions, though. The allegations of molestation and the whole falling in love with the girl who was basically his step daughter thing just put a bad taste in my mouth.

Anyway, not a fan.

Still, we have to deal with this quote.

Only because of the person who said it, I'll be working off the assumption that it's a joke and that this is his most famous attempt at a witty observation about life, done in his style, clearly contradictory, somewhat obnoxious.

It is, after all, impossible to die without being there for it. Technically, anyway.

I have to assume he was just being funny. But not like funny haha. (or at least to me it isn't, but maybe that's what happens when you actually watch someone die)

Anyway. I could talk about the quote and how it might actually be true in some ways because most people who die of slower illnesses become comatose before death, so their level of awareness of what is happening may be suppressed. I could, but since no one really knows what happens to the brain and what people can perceive in the moments just prior to death (and possibly after, for however long there is brain activity), not to mention the debate about an afterlife, I won't.

Besides.

I feel dirty now and need a shower.

Shudder.

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